I’m not here to impress anybody and you shouldn't be either, I’m here to help you so that you can grow from where you are now. to basically guide you all to your goals using the truth for you to leave a bomb ass legacy behind to break the cycles the generations before us put into place.
1. Everybody has problems
We all have problems their problems may not be of the same caliber as your problems but we all have them. but you’re NOT alone, most people don't talk about their problems, but they definitely have them. Knowing the world has problems is how one stops from feeling stagnant and sorry for yourself. All the issues we go through in life are simply a process in which we have to grow through to learn lessons and to gain experience in life , you may not believe you have to go through the lesson but that's the universes way of preparing you or giving you a download to help the next person or even help yourself later on so that you don't repeat the same thing twice.
Unfortunately this process is part of the human experience and for growth it’s what you were forced to sign up for when your parents decided to procreate now we have to deal with them so lets make lemonade with our lemons!
2.Other people’s opinions don’t matter.
People will always find someone to talk about they will always convey their opinions and cast out those who they feel are weak, misfits or simply don’t “fit in” with others because of they’re too fat, too skinny, too dark, too light, too religious, too opinionated, too smart, too dumb, or too whatever . At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter. People will always find someone to talk about. We don’t live in a perfect world despite what social media might try and prove to us or what influences try to influence we are all different with different minds and bodies no where in any guideline does it say that we must conform and think like the masses your talents are not there and there talent is not yours so you don't have to worry about the ideas or the validation from man because when you die you do just that you die alone with your own thoughts and I'm very certain you don't want your last dying thought to be i hope the world actually likes me question is did you actually like yourself ?
3. BE YOUR DAMN SELF !
There are people in the world who actually like you for who you are. Trust me the right people will be attracted to the aura you put out when you quit being this personified person who's trying to "fit in" and pretending you don’t have problems and that life is like spending every day in Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory licking lollipops and having Oompa Loompas wait on you hand and foot the you can actually attract the folk that you need to be around and who can uplift so your not afraid of being vulnerable , authentic and real with the world. Like dude its okay to tell people you’re not okay its defiantly alright, asking for help is the greatest gift you can have in times of pain and suffering. Stop hiding the real you because you’re ashamed of who you are, don't be its alright let the real you shine through i know it takes discipline, courage and a sense of fight to grow to be ones self but i have faith if you accept who are you can move earth, wind and mountains to attain the goals of the future all by being your self.
4.Perfection doesn’t exist and never will.
Perfection ignores failure, mistakes, a growth mindset and an unrealistic view of reality. It leave no room for priorities, no space to be just human, no time for happiness. Attempting to push for perfection leads to breakdowns, burn outs, disorders and self-hatred. The pursuit of perfection is setting ones self up for failure due to it being unattainable . It is unrewarding, frustrating, and worst of all entirely subjective. Perfection looks different and means different things to everyone. As long as you strive to be perfect, you will forever feel as if you are not enough. You will always feel like the second banana ,powerless ,hopeless and like a car that wont run that's just straight out of gas.
PERFECTION IS UNATTAINABLE FORGET ABOUT IT !
5. Death is inevitable we all will die ! The End
The clock is ticking amigo. Stop reading this article and use the time you have left to break the cycles we have been forced to indoor an create a futre thats bigger than you could haver ever in a million years have dreamt of! Inspire the world through your talents, take care of your family and come to terms with the fact you’ll have to say goodbye one day. Death is guaranteed for all of us. It’s the only certainty we have and it’s the only motivation you will ever need!
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