My point of view honestly when dealing with a narcasssit I blocked my narcissist ass ex boy friend at least 20 times in the last few months. It never resulted in me actually thinking about him less when in fact it did the quite opposite. So I unblocked him on every social profile and decided to work on my mental strength rather than focus on social media. The reason for this was because i feel like social media won't last forever even if it does . The Accounts, profiles, & websites will get deleted and deactivated over time. Those ‘Block’ and ‘Ignore’ buttons can never fully secure you from not being hoovered or contacted by your narcissist or even stalked if they want to see you and find you on social media they will. What can last forever is you mentally working on yourself to never ever react to anything a narcissist does, ever! I promise you it is possible to be immune to their narcissistic behavior and do not waste a single minute of your precious life on him/her/them.
The question is why blocking a narcissist is not a good idea so there’s this I’d like to add. If your narcissist notices you blocked him/her.them it will make him feel powerful or at least like they won Because in a way you're trying to escape and get away right in front of his/her/their eyes and trust me, they will enjoy it the trick it to not give in not to contact not to think about it even if its slowly eating you inside. unfortunately due their twisted logic they see this as if their (still) the centre of your universe which they arent but unfortunatly they dont see it that way all they see is the power in which they feel they have over you. It’s up to you if you think how important this is or isn’t. It’s up to you if you want to view some things from your their perspective or not. I see this as an observational thing which helped me to understand that what I’m doing is right. I’m not blocking them therefore they arent getting any vibe from me, no energy, no hints, nothing. I literally go through life as if they doesn’t exist because it’s how you feel. you are mentally stronger and any future attempts from them mean nothing to you. ‘Block’ option doesn’t secure you from anything and means nothing to you. This kind of mindset doesn’t come over night, it takes a dedication to heal from a narcissist and understand their disorder and just how inconsequential they are.
Still, if you really think that blocking your narcissist is something that has to be done in order for you to completely 100% stop thinking about them, then go ahead and do it but please remember if they want to contact you they will they will try to get a rise out of you they will try to see a reaction dont give it to them they hold no power over you if they cant get a rise out of you remember that Try it if you think it’s life-changing. I so much hope it helps you in your recovery. It’s different for everyone. All I know is that it did not help me because I realized it takes more than just a ‘Block’ button to get away from someone who want to keep their hold over me.
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